About Us

Our Mission

Our community aims to provide a platform where “Women in the Widow ‘hood” have a voice; and where they can discuss their unique challenges, conflicts, solutions and joys; families, friends, jobs and leisure time. The “Widows’ Lists” offer practical and tested places where widows have found answers and trustworthy service providers.

The Host

Award-winning journalist Sandra (Sandy) Pesmen writes the DR.JOB column for the newspaper syndicate Career News Service. Previously she was Corporate Features Editor of Crain Communications Inc., Features Editor of Crain’s Chicago Business, and a features writer for the Chicago Daily News. She is a member of The Chicago Journalism Hall of Fame and the University of Illinois Media Alumni Hall of Fame. The concept for the Widow’s List was born after the death of her husband in November 2007.


Beth Presmen PriesBeth Pesmen Preis was widowed at age 33. She remarried two years later, and since then she has lived in Northbrook, IL with her husband and their two children. A graduate of Southern Illinois University, Beth is a photographer and publicist for Glenview/Northbrook’s School District 30.

“All my work, my life, everything is about survival. All my work is meant to say, ‘You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated.'”

Maya Angelou

 Our Community

”Widowslist.com is a great idea. I’ve been a widow for 23 years and [recently] started my own support group. We read helpful books and offer suggestions and friendship to one another. Like Beth, I was widowed young but had a few friends in the same situation. Now, sadly, many of my friends and associates have joined my ‘club.’”

Judy S., Macomb, IL

”I think your group is wonderful and my mother would love to be a part of it. She has been a widow for 13 1/2 years. She wants to attend some of your seminars. Thanks for doing this.”

Dana S., Northbrook, IL

“I’ve been widowed twice: the first time when I was 27 and had a one-year-old son. Three years later I remarried, and after 27 years, he died. I’ve now been widowed 11 years. The death of my second husband was harder because we spent so many years together. Working has helped. I would love to hear from others on your blog. Thank you for the web site. It will help a lot of us.”

Arlene L., Kankakee, IL

“I’m a financial advisor, and as a single parent I fought through many financial hardships. Now I feel compelled to help those with similar needs. I would love to become involved with The Widows List. “

Laura D., Northbrook, IL

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    1. Sandra Pesmen Post author

      And we welcome you to the site where we’ll learn about each other and more widows too.

    1. Sandra Pesmen Post author

      Call your local newspaper or tv station and ask names of widows clubs, also your local library newsletter, as well as park district senior programs. All of those program directors should have local contacts foryou. Meanwhile please keep reading us. Best wishes,

  6. Teresa Sewell

    I recently became a widow on July 27, 2016 my husband was only 57 years old he died of a pulmonary embolism which had formed due to prolonged radiation therapy for prostate cancer and he had told the doctor he was experiencing severe shortness of breath and the doctor blamed it on the extremely hot weather we are experiencing my husband worked in a foundry and on an assembly line that made Honda automobiles both were very hot work environments and I also told the doctor that I did not think it was the hot weather and the DR doctor that pronounced my husband told me that is what happened but the ontology doctor still thinks he did nothing I have spoken with someone at Cancer Centers Of America and the lady told me when my husband complained of shortness of breath the doctor should have done a Doppler scan and a C t scan which would have shown my husband had a blood clot. and blood thinners could have been prescribed I am now looking into hiring an attorney to represent me


    i love this website,it has really given me the courage to marry a widow in other to create another chance of happiness in their life by giving them love. Please i needed a recommended widow from america,who would love to marry and i am very much ready to care for her.

    1. Sandra Pesmen Post author

      We are ve3ry grateful to have you in our group and hope you continue to read our blog and better understand widows’ lives. We regret we are unable to participate in matchmaking, but there are many such Web sites you can easily Google and join. Good luck.

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